Another Mom Signs Under Duress

http://www.fightforadrian.com/index.html- Another mom signs under duress. The mom surrender in SC; but as of now she has relocated to AZ; for a sense of relief from this madness. I do not think she has yet; got that relief; as this trauma continues. Please; stop by; this site; and offer your support. My dear friend in SC; Michael; can you look at this and give me some insight?

Shannon O'Dea brought this to MY Attention! It's Disturbing

http://ripoffreport.com/reports/0/045/RipOff0045453.htm


Read this; and tell me your thoughts? My thoughts? Refund? Is what these people were thinking of when this sweet little baby passed away. Refund? I am a mother of two; one loss to adoption; and another who is still here. If either of them passed away; my last thought would be of money; as I would hope any parents last thought would be. Since when do children come with REFUNDS? Ugh; this is disturbing on many levels. So disturbing; I am at a loss for words.

Utah Needs to Be Stopped

There are three stories right now going on in Utah. Three? Why? The LDS church; I just learned. I had to ask the O'Dea family to explain the LDS church to me; and they were nice enough to send me a link which I am going to post here; so if you don't understand the LDS Church this will help educate you more.

Under this I am posting a link to all three stories:
http://findarticles.com/p/articles/mi_qn4188/is_20070509/ai_n19065628

http://www.myspace.com/CanYouNameThesePeople

http://www.babyselling.com/


And this will help better explain the LDS Church:

http://www.mormonwiki.com/mormonism/Adoption


Utah needs to be be stopped treating father's this way. What can we do? There has to be a way to end this madness. I have wrote to the Utah Gov.; already concerning Cody. I am now going to write about these other two men to the Utah Gov.; please do the same. You can find the link for the Utah Gov.; on the link of baby selling. The more we bombard them with letters; the more they will have to think. Yes; they need to think; and realize how wrong this is. Theses babies were not without homes; and loving families. All these fathers wanted these babies. They said; I take responsibility for my child; and they get treated this way. Why can't father's win in this country? If they said; to the mom; it is your problem; they would of been called a Deadbeat Dad. Am I missing something? Because I am BOILING MAD at how fathers are being treated.

http://prairieguy.wordpress.com/2007/07/27/questions-for-my-birth-mother/

Tears are streaming down my face; as I reply to this.
But I thought I would answer some questions for you from my stand; I am a natural mom:
No, at the time I didn't realize what I was doing. I felt alone in a nightmare that I couldn't wake from.
It was not easy to lay there; not knowing where to turn for help. I laid awake; because I just wanted to be with you; just me and you. When we were alone; I'd talk to you and tell you "Momma is here." And I always wanted to be there; I never wanted this.
Regret? That second.
I wanted to scream in the car; the whole way home. My screams wouldn't come out; they were trapped;as the way I felt I was trapped. I hear those scream in my hearts, of hearts as I write this now.
The final hour; I was with people I do not trust today. Yes; I regretted this decision since it happened.
It feels like a death; to lose part of oneself; to a future unknowing. Tears of sorrow; and they have never lessened; I still have those tears of sorrow; and you will be 15 on August 14.
I; only heard you cry; when you came into this world. And; I remember that cry as it was a second ago. That is locked in my heart; of hearts. No; you didn't understand the decision made on your behalf; how could you? You were just my sweet Innocent baby.
For me; it was a lot worse then the loss of my 1st love.
No; I wouldn't do this all over again. I would run, run, and hide; so they couldn't have my precious baby boy.
Yes; you were very wanted in the womb.
Yes; look for me; you would find a momma who regrets not knowing you; baby boy.
No; your father didn't stay. I don't know if he even knows what happened to us:( Yes; I have another child. Brittany; your sister; is 10 years old. Yes; she knows all about you; and wishes you were with us; as I do.

Yes; the person who wrote this; used the forbidden word. But made good points. I just do not think he realizes how hurtful that word is.

Cody O'Dea

http://www.babyselling.com/support


Please; stop by Cody's web page; and show your support. The petition is up; but I wish there were more signantures. All the O'Dea famly is asking for is people to sign the petition; and letters to the Utah Gov. Also; please sign the guestbook; tell the family they are in your thoughts, and we are rooting for them. The next court date is August 29, 2007. So lets overwhelm the family with signatures on the petition. Then they know we are rooting for them. Some people have left nasty remarks in the guestbook; that has my blood boiling. How can people be so cruel? PLEASE, SHOW YOUR SUPPORT to CODY O'DEA, and his family.

Do it for me; because we all know August is a hard month for me. August 14; will be here to quick; and it will be another year I didn't get to spend my son's birthday with him. Hopefully; we can stand together and not let this young man; go through the pain a lot of us go through on our children's birthday. This is my birthday present for my son; to help Cody.

Any other suggestions of what we can do; please leave me a comment; or email me @ KellyDcash@aol.com. I am very interested in any ideas you have to help the O'Dea family; and any other family that needs our help.

Is The USA finally Getting It?

http://www.sfgate.com/cgi-bin/article.cgi?f=/n/a/2007/07/23/national/a104446D81.DTL&hw=adoption&sn=008&sc=692http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Anna_Mae_He


Yay; as you probably can figure out I am happy with the outcome of this case. Finally; in the parents favor. And; you see no one cared to explain the reality to them what was happening with their baby. They thought it was temporary for health insurance needs; wasn't the case. Can the people who don't explain the reality of this sleep at night? I can't; knowing there are parents out there suffering because they don't have their baby/children. And; most of them said I can't do this; went to court; but were ruled against. Why is that? This country makes me ILL when it comes to adoption. Our country failed these mothers, and fathers. It is late so I will not go on a rampage about how fathers are treated in this country.

On a good note; Congratulations to this Family. If you are adoptive parents; and the parents tell you they can't do it; don't put them through the hell. Put yourself in their shoes; is it worth causing their family the pain? If you think it is; you have no business adopting in the first place. That baby obviously has a family who loves him/her; and if you love the baby; you would want is best for the baby; and that is being with their family.

Coercion

Ok; so I was reading a report on Jamie. Can we say coercion? Yes; by the amom, and Jamie's boyfriend. You are telling me we should let that girl adopt? Show me; how she is fit. Coercion; in itself makes her unfit to be a mother in my opinion. And another thing; aren't adoptive parents screened? This bothers me; with my son being out there. Were his parents not screened? No one should just be allowed to adopt. To many insane people out there; as it is. We all know my feelings on adoption; and they are not very nice. This attorney should have to answer; why he allowed this girl to do this to the mother. Does he know coercion took place?